10 Must-Haves for Bible Journaling

You want to Bible journal, but you don’t know how to start?

Here are some basic tools that I like to keep within arm’s reach when I’m spending time in God’s Word.

1. Mechanical Pencil-Simple but essential, pencils help me to sketch the outline before I go over it with pen. I can also use a layer of graphite behind any artwork in order to transfer it.

2. Pigma Micron Pens-These pens have fine tips that don’t bleed, smear, or fade with time.

https://www.lifeway.com/en/product/pigma-micron-05-set-8-asst-colors-P006119684

3. Colored Pencils-My alternative to watercolors, colored pencils can be blended to have the same affect as watercolors with less mess and prep time. Look for the ones that have more pigment in them so that you don’t have to push hard on the thin pages of your Bible.

https://www.lifeway.com/en/product/coloring-pencils-veritas-set-of-48-P006163838

4. Tombow Dual Brush Pens– With these pens, you can choose which side that you want to use. The small tip is great for filling in the details, while the brush tips result in beautiful lettering with a little practice.

5. Gel Pens– The bright colors leap off the page when you use gel pens. It’s important to remember to let them dry before you close your Bible or else the color will smudge.

https://www.lifeway.com/en/product/gel-pen-set-36pc-assortment-P006163608

6. Stickers-Such an easy way to make a big impact! Be sure to avoid 3D stickers because they will indent your pages; but other than that, explore the 40% off sales at Hobby Lobby to your heart’s content.

7. Double-sided Tape-How on earth did it take me so long to find this miracle of man? Now I can reuse paper scraps from old planners or calendars and stick them right in my Bible.

8. Stencils– If you aren’t confident in your hand lettering yet, finding alphabet stencils is the way to go!

9. Washi Tape– Yes, that is how you really spell it! “Wa” means “Japanese” while “Shi” means “Paper”. And what a wonderful paper it is! You can decorate your Bible with it and it is removable, in case, you make a mistake when placing it.

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10. Ruler-A good ol’ ruler makes leveling your hand lettering so much easier. If you get alphabet stickers, you can even line them up on the ruler first to get an idea of how far apart you want them.

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*Fontastic Journaling is now a part of A Southern Drawl

Your Golden Ticket To Heaven

   When I was a kid, Willy Wonka’s  Chocolate Factory had to be pretty close to my version of heaven minus the weird oompa loompas. It was a wonderful place where everything was edible and sweet–I can just taste that chocolate river now, but only five kids got to see the inside of the secretive factory. Why? Because they found golden tickets inside candy bars. 

   In Romans 4, the overall question Paul asks is how did Abraham get his golden ticket to heaven? And the answer is so much more important than touring a candy factory.  

   He believed in the promise that even in his old age God would give him a child. There was nothing, NOTHING, that could have given him hope that things would happen on their own. 

   Infertility is an age old problem and I know couples today who yearn to have a baby of their own, but medical complications get in the way. So not only did Abraham and Sarah most likely have medical problems, they were more qualified to be grandpa and grandma. 

   Instead of blowing God off and saying that the vision was indigestion, Abraham accepted that what God said would come to pass. As J. Vernon McGee said, “He looked away from his circumstances to the promise.” 

   The fact that Abraham is “fully convinced” as it says in verse 21 means there is no wiggle room for doubt. If you’ve gone into any of the neighborhoods flooded by Hurricane Harvey, you have a fair picture of his faith. Some of the houses were so immersed that all you could see were the rooftops. 

“Therefore it was credited to him as righteousness.” Romans 4:22 ESV 

   Abraham was then considered good enough in God’s sight because of his belief. Although having a son might have been Abraham’s greatest desire, that wasn’t the end game for the Lord. There was so much more to God’s plan. Yes, He was going to create armies of little Abrahams, but more importantly, He was going to send from Abraham’s line an heir of the world–a.k.a. a superhero that could beat all of the Avengers single-handedly. 

   Which leads straight into verses 23-25. 

   We have the same promise of righteousness when we trust that Christ gave up His life for all believers. Even though we don’t have the opportunity to rub elbows with Jesus, we can read the memoirs of people who did and we benefit from their faith experiences. 

   If God can give life to Sarah’s womb, He can give life in Jesus’ tomb. 

   A current example of a man of faith is Nabeel Qureshi. Raised as a Muslim in the United States, he was challenged by a friend in college to go to Bible Study with him. After many debates, Nabeel chose Christ. He became a strong apologist and wrote several books. 

   In August 2016, Nabeel was diagnosed with stomach cancer, but despite the grim outlook, he chose to trust Christ again (see link to the video below).

https://youtu.be/U4AQBYf3wRY
   On September 16, 2017, Nabeel became free of suffering forever. He is now seeing the “substance of things hoped for” in God’s presence. 

   What are some of your faith struggles? 

   Here is a list of common ones:

~Addictions

~Demonic Harassment 

~Depression

~Fear

~Forgiveness

~Guidance

~Health

~Companionship

~Salvation

   For me, fear of the future often holds me back from faith in the present. I’ve questioned if I will ever have a family of my own one day or will God have me be single forever?” (Answer: Yes, because there are no marriages in heaven.) šŸ˜‰

  In these times, it’s helpful for me to lean on God’s promises like Abraham did. I can remind myself to “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires.” Psalm 37:4 CSB

   One of my favorites is Psalm 16:8-9 ESV. 

    “I have set the Lord always before me; because he is at my right hand, I shall not be shaken. Therefore, my heart is glad and my whole being rejoices; my flesh also dwells secure.” 

   I want to challenge you to find a verse that deals with your faith struggle and memorize it before you lay your head on your pillow tonight. Biblegateway is a great resource for finding one. All you have to do is plug your topic into the search engine and it will pop up the verses related to it. www.biblegateway.com

~Anna McFarland

General Who?

   On this day in history, June 1st, 1918, known as “The day the Yanks saved Paris”, may God stir in our hearts to remember and appreciate the man who was responsible for most, if not all, of the American army’s success in the Great War, General of the Armies, John Joseph Pershing.
    It has been evidenced that in our culture, past and present, we Americans tend to lift up certain people who, as mere humans, possess beauty, charm, charisma; the ones who wow and amaze us with their athletic ability, dazzle us with talent, or steal our devotion with brilliant screenplay. Certainly, these feats are praiseworthy, but do we admire men and women who possess character? The citizens who may not have temporary attributes, but contain something far more eternal?
    General John Joseph Pershing, commander of American forces in World War One, is a stark example. A man mostly ignored -and widely unknown – by the public. of course, we record his name in history books, but only as cold, emotionless fact, when justly he should be revered as one of the greatest generals to ever put on a uniform. During his younger years, his experience in the American west, Cuba, and the Philippines, his character was proved several times. 

   One instance, when he was a junior officer fresh out of West Point, Pershing had been stationed in New Mexico. Left to the quiet boredom of the desert, he and his men began to play poker. Pershing, who was only a beginner, quickly improved so much that he stopped, knowing that the game would distract him, and he would become addicted to it. 

   While he was in the military, Pershing developed two sides of his personality. On one side John “Jack” Pershing was a very likable guy who loved merry-making and dancing (he was very well-liked by the ladies). But few people saw this side of Pershing; instead, what his troops and the public ever viewed was General Pershing, a strict disiplinarian who expected everything from his command. Even in the thick of conflict, Pershing would make sure his men shaved everyday. The General did this because he believed that the neater and tidier a soldier’s uniform and gear was the better he would perform in battle. 

   When the U.S. entered World War One in 1917, President Wilson appointed him commander of the U.S. Army over many other candidates. He brought the same habits and mentality to Europe, where the British and the French had fought for three terrible, casualty-heavy years. When Pershing arrived he was approached by several other Allied commanders, demanding that he submit to their master plan for the Americans called Amalgamation, which fundamentally meant using U.S. troops to fill British and French ranks. General Pershing resolutely refused, knowing that for the entire war they had been fighting defensive battles that had gotten them nowhere.

    He instead took on the monumental task of equipping and managing a separate American army that needed forty-five thousand tons of supplies a day. Pershing wisely chose trusted friends and advisers to help him with tasks he didn’t have time for. 

   Strict as always, the General devoted himself to making sure his men had the training and direction they needed to pravail against the Germans. After several successful battles, in which American soldiers proved their resilience in combat, Pershing’s troops, more than a million men, prepared to go through the Argonne Forest. An infantry’s nightmare compounded because of German snipers, traps, and machine guns. The Americans pushed through. fighting heavy artillery fire, pouring rain, and muddy roads. 

   Even more challenging then enemy bullets was sickness. Thousands of men went down ill and when the Argonne campaign ended, more soldiers had died from influenza than from battle. Pershing himself suffered from it, along with a horrible toothache. When the dentist offered him morphine to relieve the pain, General Pershing turned him down, saying “I have too much need of all my senses”(John Perry, Pershing, Commander of the Great War.Ibid). 

   Through all this, U.S. soldiers persevered, coming out of the Argonne forest at the end of October battered, but still intact. From that point on, the German army was in full retreat and on November 11, 1918 at 11:00 a.m. the fighting stopped and the World War One was over. Unfortunately, heads in Washington agreed to an armistice, and General Pershing hated the fact that thousands of lives had been given for only an ineffectual armistice, and not complete and unconditional surrender. He knew that this decision would eventually allow Germany to recover from her losses and rise to attack again. 

   Pershing deeply cared for his men and grieved for the ones lost in battle. He respected the men that he commanded to the point that he wished to be buried with them in Arlington cemetery. When he died in 1948, his desire was fulfilled and the same plain white marble headstone that adorned the plot of any other soldier was placed on his grave. This act attested to his humility. Even though, after World War One, he had been promoted to the highest rank possible, General of the Armies (matched only by George Washington), he wanted to be remembered as a man who did his duty for his country and nothing more. 

   When he led his fighting men in the Philippines against the Moros, he was to be awarded with a Medal of Honor; however, the then Captain Pershing heard about it he stopped the process, recalling a lesson he learned in Cuba that a fighting commander stays with his men. As far as he was concerned, he saw a need and met it. Pershing’s devotion to his troops and his fidelity to his country should be a challenge to our character and an inspiration to us all. 

    P.S. If you would like to learn more about this fascinating man, read John Perry’s Pershing, Commander of the Great War.   

   My thanks to John Adam McFarland for letting me share his article on Drawn To His Light.                                

How To Speak Like A Victorian

Have you ever been the “new” person at church or at work? Recently, I visited a young adults group where I slipped into the back row because I was late (gasp) and tried to blend into the background which was successful until the teaching ended. Then came the hard part–socializing with strangers. Although I’m not a shy person, it was a little awkward breaking into other’s circles.

In the Victorian era, there was an art to conversing with people. Here are 12 tips taken from The Essential Handbook of Victorian Etiquette that you might find helpful.

1. “Be cool, collected, and self-possessed, using respectful, chaste, and appropriate language.”

2. “Recollect that the object of conversation is to entertain and amuse.”

3. “Be patient. The foreigner cannot, perhaps, recall the word he desires; the speaker may be slow of speech; you may have heard the story a dozen times; but even then you must evince interest…”

4. “Do not always commence a conversation by an allusion to the weather.”

5. “Do not, when narrating an incident, continually say ‘you see,’ ‘you know,’ etc.”

6. “Do not use profanity, vulgar terms, slang, phrases, words of double meaning, or language that will bring a blush to any person.

7. “Do not intersperse your language with foreign words and high-sounding terms. It shows affectation, and will draw ridicule upon you.”

8. “Do not make a pretense of gentility, nor parade the fact that you are a descendant of any notable family. You must pass for just what you are, and must stand on your own merit.”

9. “Do not make a parade of being acquainted with distinguished or wealthy people, of having been to college, or of having visited foreign lands. All this is no evidence of any real genuine worth on your part.”

10. “Do not attempt to pry into the private affairs of others by asking what their profits are, what things cost, whether Melissa ever ‘had a beau,’ and why Amarette never got married.”

11. “Do not aspire to be a great storyteller. An inveterate teller of long stories becomes very tiresome. To tell one or two witty, short, new stories, appropriate to the occasion, is about all that one person should inflict on the company.”

12. “Do not indulge in satire; no doubt you are witty, and you could say a most cutting thing that would bring the laugh of the company upon your opponent, but you must not allow it, unless to rebuke an impertinent fellow who can be suppressed in no other way.”

Above all, I believe that the best advice comes from Colossians 4:6.

ā€œLet your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.ā€

If your thoughts are focused on showing grace to the other person, then the awkwardness will fall away. And who knows? You might make a friend or two.
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Titanic Moment: 105th Anniversary

Ā Ā Titanic Pastels 2017

Ā Ā  In 2009, I had a collision with an iceberg. Thankfully, I was on solid ground so there was no harm done. You see, my family of seven had been on vacation in Branson, Missouri and we decided to visit the Titanic Museum which was shaped like the actual ship although half of the true size. In order to get into the museum, we had to walk through a mammoth iceberg. Once we entered, a first class maid greeted us in her black dress overlapped by a starched pinafore and handed us our boarding passes that had the names of historical passengers. I opened the navy card and discovered my new identity was Amy Zillah Elsie Stanley, a twenty-three year old dressmaker from Oxford.

Ā Ā  What was supposed to be a 90 minute tour turned into 3 hours! Since there were 400 rare artifacts to see, we took our time with each one. We walked the curving Grand Staircase inlaid with wood and climbed the deck which tilted according to the degree it would have been when the ship was sinking. We even stood in the replica of the room where the wireless operator sent the message, ā€œStruck on iceberg, C.Q.D.ā€ (Come Quickly Distress). Towards the end, we tested how long we could hold our hands in the freezing water that the Titanic passengers would have endured when the ship ripped in half. After only 20 minutes in such conditions, a person develops hypothermia.

Ā Ā  When we left, the sky was cloudy, fitting our mood. It was sobering to think that the loss of so many lives could have been avoided if the proper amount of lifeboats were aboard, for there were only 20 among a passenger list of over 2,000. However, the misfortune gave us the rare opportunity to see how people react to certain death.

Ā Ā  When the shipā€™s fate was determined, Captain E. J. Smith ordered, ā€œWomen and children firstā€ into the lifeboats. Panicked, a few men hurled themselves at the lifeboats that were being loaded, trying to save their own lives until 10 gunshots restored order. Some men were more subtle in their efforts to survive. A millionaire bribed his way by giving select crew members five pounds each while another man dressed in a hat, veil, and skirt in order to secure a spot in the lifeboat.Ā Ā 

Ā Ā Ā  In sharp contrast, Major Archie Butt who was a military aide to the President of the US calmed the women through the difficulties of getting the lifeboats into the water and guarded them like a hound dog. According to a survivor by the name of Mrs. Henry Harris, ā€œMajor Butt helped those poor frightened steerage people so wonderfully, so tenderly and yet with such cool and manly firmness that he prevented the loss of many lives from panic. He was a soldier to the last.ā€ Besides him, Washington A. Roebling and Howard Case also helped to load women into the lifeboats. They even fetched a mother and daughter from their cabin to assist them to safety. Ā 

Ā Ā  But the heroics were not just limited to the men. When it was discovered that a lifeboat contained one too many, two women offered to stay behind. The younger, Elizabeth Evans, returned to the deck saying to the elder, ā€œYour need is greater than mine. You have children who need you, and I have none.ā€ She did not receive another invitation and went down with the ship.

Ā Ā Ā  Such heroism reminds me of Philippians 2:4, “Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” If the men and women had not acted with courage, there might have been no survivors. EveryoneĀ would have foughtĀ to save their own skin. Instead, the majority kept their heads and inspired bravery in others.

Ā Ā  No one expected such a tragedy on the journey. It happened in the middle of the night on a ship that was supposed to be ā€œunsinkable.ā€ Even though we might not be facing disaster at the moment, a test could be around the corner. While we cannot prepare for every possibility, we can learn to grow our character for the time when it will be most needed. As Hebrews 10:24 says, “And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works.”

Ā Ā  How are you preparing for your Titanic moment?

What I Wish I Knew Before Reading The Life-changing Magic of Tidying Up

   

  If your New Year’s resolution was to be a little more tidy this go-around, then you might have picked up the book The Life-changing Magic of Tidying Up

    There is so much to love about Marie Kondo’s book. I heard about the Japanese art of decluttering from my relatives and decided to try it last fall. It has revolutionized so many things for me and I’m so grateful that it was brought to my attention. 

   In The Life-changing Magic of Tidying Up, there is one basic rule–the items you keep must “spark joy”. If not, they are tossed into a deep black hole (garbage bag) and taken immediately to the nearest Goodwill.  Marie’s method walks you through your entire house–room by room and item by item.

  Here is a basic outline of the Konmari method… 

    *Warning: The Life-changing Magic of Tidying Up is full of Marie thanking her inanimate objects–including her socks!  However, this did not bother me since I had been warned ahead of time. Before you disregard this step altogether, you might want to take the time to thank God the Creator instead of the creations:) 

   I stayed true to her method and only strayed from it in two ways. First, I did not donate my clothes that same day. Instead, I let my sister look through it. Since she was thrilled with several of my outfits,  I don’t regret breaking that “rule”. I love seeing her smile when she is wearing a shirt that was too small for me:)

   As for the other rule that I splintered, I kept a pencil-skirt and a dress that I hope that I will fit into again someday;) I still haven’t worn either of them; but if pressed, I’ll say that they inspire me. 

   Once I discarded the “non-sparkers”, I rolled up all of my clothing in my drawers like so… 

  
   And I even used shoeboxes for smaller items like hose, socks, and scarves which was Marie’s brilliant idea to keep them folded. 

  After living with the rolled-up clothes for a few months, I discovered something that I wished that I had known from the beginning.

   With this new method, folding the laundry for my large family became a challenge. Each folded piece used to stack flatly on top of each other, now I had a pile of cylinders that liked to unfurl over the couch where I was folding. I needed more space to spread out each rolled-up shirt which was not always possible. 

   My solution- roll the clothes once they got to my room. Yes, I know that means folding them twice; but it is worth it when I see every t-shirt in a nice row inside my drawer. *I still fold jeans traditionally because they fit better inside my drawer.  

   By the end of discarding, I had several trash bags stuffed with giveaways and I was able to walk inside my closet- who knew such things were possible?

   I hope that this post was helpful to all you tidying hopefuls. If you have any other tips on how to stay organized, please feel free to share below in the comments. 

   Lighting a candle (don’t worry, I didn’t give away the matches;) 

~Anna   

  

  

Doctor Who Is Right On Time

  

   You have something very valuable. You may wish that you had less of it on your hands–you may wish that you had more. 

   It is a gift that God is giving to you right now–this very minute. An hour contains sixty of these gifts. Yep, I’m talking about minutes. 

  Every sixty seconds is a present–some less enjoyable than others; but a present nonetheless. And we are running out of them–day after day. 

   The scene in Season 8 of Doctor Who (pictured above) reminded me of that fact. The Doctor goes undercover as a caretaker of a school, but a curious schoolgirl finds him coming out of the glowing police box. He tries to get her to scram; but instead, she keeps asking him questions. Finally he tells her that she is “running out of time.”

   “Human beings have incredibly short life spans.” He explains. “Frankly you should all be in a permanent state of panic.”

   I laughed at this and then sobered. He’s right, I thought. Unlike a time lord that can regenerate, we’ve only got one shot at this life. We’ve got only one quarter to spend on the claw game of life and there is no getting it back when it is spent.   

   Game Over.

    

 
   If this is all there is, why shouldn’t we grab every moment for ourselves? It will be gone in a blink (beware weeping angels) šŸ˜‰

   If nothing happens when we die, then why not buy the iPhone 6s even though you are drowning in debt? Why get up at 5:30a.m on Saturday to volunteer with special needs? Why not divorce like Blake Shelton and Miranda Lambert if you are unhappy?

  
   Because this is NOT all there is. 

   There is a life that we can only dream about in heaven and to get there we need to believe that we are not alone. There is someone watching us–just like the Doctor thought. Someone who is brilliant at hiding since the beginning of time. 

   Don’t worry though. You can find Him if you seek Him. He even sent His Son Jesus to bring you to Him. Step into God’s TARDIS and find hope. 

   In the”glow”,

         ~Anna

  

   

   

Heartbeat of the Church

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Today I witnessed something beautiful unfold.
Nope, I didn’t find it on a mountain-top or in the petal of a rose or the glimmering rays of a sunset on a lake.
The beauty was in people.
Not America’s Next Top Model type of beauty. But the beauty of those who give of themselves for others.
The volunteers of the Walk, Run, and Roll event, to be specific.

Several Christian organizations came together as one to participate in Special Life Network’s first 1.5k walk.
They erected tables, loaded bags of popcorn, checked in the attendees, cheered on the walkers, shaved ice for snow-cones, brought puppets to life on stage, and ran messages back and forth, lovingly cared for the handicapped, and so much more. All with sleepy smiles on their faces.
Why would anyone CHOOSE to leave their bed before six in the morning on a Saturday, you ask?
To be the hands and feet of those who can’t use theirs.
I got to see believers OUT of their comfort zones and INTO the lives of special needs children/adults proving that “Every Life Is Special.” To quote one of the volunteers–“Where do I sign up for next year?”
God’s church has a heartbeat.
And I got to feel it today.

War Room: Awe-inspiring or Yawn-inspiring?

    

   When I hear the words “War Room”, I do not think of a tiny room without windows. But the Kendrick Brothers might just have changed my mind with their new movie. 

   I have to confess…the preview gave the impression that it might be a little on the dull side–“a snooze fest” to quote my estimable little brother. But when I had the opportunity to see War Room in theaters, I found myself laughing and-heaven forbid!- crying. From the many sniffs I heard in the dark theater, I wasn’t the only one. I blame the tears on the watery genes that I inherited from the maternal side of the family. That and the incredible acting of Priscilla C. Shirer and T.C. Stallings who played Mr. and Mrs. Jordan. 

   On the outside, the Jordan family have it all together. The Dad is a high-paid Sales Rep while the Mom is a Real Estate Agent. They have a beautiful house and an adorable daughter. 

   But their daughter, Danielle wishes that she was a part of her best friend’s family. Why? Because fighting is her parents’ favorite pastime. 

   As God would have it, Mrs. Jordan is hired by  Mrs. Clara-a “feidly” (that’s feisty and godly)  old woman who goes to battle on her knees in a most unusual place–her closet. 

   Since you are going to watch the movie, I won’t give anything more away except for the idea of using strategy in prayer-life. It struck me that I’m waiting for things to happen to me, instead of praying them to me. 

   “‘You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask’ (English Standard Version, James 4:2).”

  I don’t want to assume that the trials that come up in my family will just vanish.

  I don’t want to wish the fruits of the Spirit into my life, but pray them. 

  I no longer want to “hope” that I shall find a godly husband. I want to pray that he will be filled with the Holy Spirit and arrive at the right time.  

  I don’t want to forget about the needs of friends at work or church; but lift their requests to the Father. 

   How often am I robbed of joy from not following up on a prayer request that has been answered? 

  We have a loving Father who will not give us a scorpion when we ask for some egg. (Luke 11:12)

   Don’t believe me? Ask Him. 

P.S. Not one of my family members was bored in the watching of this film.

   Living in the Light,

            ~Anna

  

   
    

The Best Thing for Josh Duggar

     There once was a boy who grew up in a large family. At an early age, he gained fame that ensured that whatever he had for breakfast would be discussed throughout the land. 

   When he reached manhood, he found a job proclaiming God’s truth to the world. Inevitably, a kind-hearted woman crossed his path and he married her. His children soon multiplied; but somewhere along the way, his life did not fulfill him. 

   A beautiful woman came into his view and he could not resist. One sin led to another until the world heard about it and the many years the man spent preaching God’s words came back to haunt him.

    Of course, I’m talking about King David of the Bible; but many men have the same story. The most recent man to fall into the trap is Josh Duggar.

   Publicly, he stood for family while his private life did not measure up. He made mistakes and now they have come to light…and I say that it is the best thing that could happen to him. 

   You might disagree with me, but think about it. How else is he to get the accountability that he needs if no one knows about it? As long as he kept his doings in the dark, he fell headlong into the same pit…every…time. We all need someone to keep us in check–parents, spouses, and friends. 

   “Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.”   

Proverbs 28:13 

   I don’t see an easy road for Josh and Anna; but I have great hopes for them. Their marriage can become even stronger, if they let the Lord work. It can happen. King David’s broken and contrite spirit before the Lord led to one of the prettiest Psalms that we have. 

   How about a current example? Kathie Lee Gifford’s husband admitted to having an affair with a flight attendant in 1997 and it was all over the media too. BUT they worked through  it. 

   Here is a profound quote of hers.

   “When Frank and I went through it all, my dear friend the counselor said, ā€˜If you canā€™t forgive your husband, forgive your childrenā€™s father.ā€™ It changed everything. Because my childrenā€™s father is the finest man I know. Heā€™s easy to forgive, rather than the one who hurt me personally. The minute I got my eyes off me, thatā€™s when the real healing started.ā€ Sheā€™s not suggesting that everything changed instantly when she shifted focus. ‘Itā€™s so hard. Trust takes one second to lose and a lifetime to rebuild’.”

   ~Kathie Lee Gifford’s Biography

   They did rebuild and the marriage lasted until Frank Gifford’s passing. Thank God!

   Please join me in praying for Josh and Anna’s marriage and family. May God do a mighty work in their lives!

   Lighting my phone’s backlight,

                       Anna